The Fiance and I have started our registries this weekend! We had so much fun, but boy is it tiring!! We've gone to one store and have two more stores to register at. I thought this would be so much fun, and it definitely is, but after a few hours I was pooped and told the Hubby To Be to just start scanning whatever he wanted- he could find me over on a couch if he had any questions. LOL! Fortunately, we had my Future in Laws with us to help guide the way through the kitchen items. I have no clue when it comes to anything kitchen related (remember my New Years resolution?) so once we were finished there I didn't have the endurance to hit up towels or bedding. Instead we dragged our butts to In-N-Out Burger for a break. We're going to start another registry tonight and finish the third probably next week.
Here's the start of my questions...do you have any tips for me? After asking some of my friends and scowering through bridal websites, I did pick up some great hints. However, I'd much rather get some advice from people who have done it and know what they're doing or what they would have done instead.
Here's what I know, read online, or have already been told:
- Make sure to register for various price points for all guests
- Register at two locations minimum and make sure your registry is available in store and online.
- Don't stress out about it, it's much easier to let your significant other scan whatever ridiculous item he/she wants than to fight about it
- To communicate with your partner about what/how you envision your lifestyle and home so you can register for items appropriate to your needs
- Don't register at Target because they don't let you return items and are hard to deal with (thanks again From Shrimp to Lobster in this post, plus I've heard it from a few other people as well)
- Not to worry about over registering, it makes it easier for your guests to find a gift they would love to give
So, another question I have for you is this: What items should I not bother to register for? What items MUST I register for? For example, my friends didn't both with China, but did register-splurge on their everyday dinnerware. Another friend of mine just had to have a juicer, but never uses it now. Should I get plain plates or ones with a design? Sterling silver silverware or stainless steel? So many options! For all of you guys who have registered or even live on your own, what items do I have to have and what can I live without?
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We just kinda did the whole, what do we use EVERYDAY and then register for it all. LOL. However, we did register at Target but luckily that is just our backup registry....our main one is crate and barrel. One thing that i made sure i did was check pricing at every store..bc you can buy a coffee maker at one place and get it cheaper at another place...so I would take note of the prices and then just go back and remove or add accordingly. it is fun but very tiring! wait until you have to go buy the big items like washer machines and stuff. that one you need drink after. lol
I got married about 9 months ago and I hate to cook so believe me when I say I was NOT excited to register for the wedding! We did Target because it is universal and I am from a small town that doesn't have stores like Pottery Barn(we also registered there). We went ahead and registered for 12 place settings because everyone kept telling me that even though we only have a table that seats 4 right now we will probably (hopefully) move up in the world. I also let hubs pick some stuff like tools and entertainment type things so he would be included in the whole process. Most importantly have fun!!! I registered for a Nintendo DS, icecream maker and hubs really wanted a slushy maker and we ended up getting all three:) And yes, we have used all those things, ha! Hope this helps a little.
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My fiance and I have been living together for seven years, so have decided to register for our honeymoon instead! But I feel a little disappointed that I'm missing out on this opportunity to scan-scan-scan away! haha!
:) Hazel
I've never been married, and I've never done a registry, but I have been living on my own for 6 years now. I'd say to not forget about a good trash can. Get one that is large enough so that you don't waste trash bags and if possible, one with a lid. Also, don't forget things like a spice rack and cooking utensils (they often have packs that bring almost everything you'll need).
I don't cook very often, but when I do, or we entertain, I'm so glad to have a variety of Corningware casserole dishes. They're very good quality and are great for baking or cooking in the oven. Also I'd recommend a Pyrex 2 cup measuring cup. I think it's very handy.
Lindsey- How fun! We're going to do Crate & Barrel next. I did Bed Bath and Beyond instead of Target, but now I'm second guessing myself.
Ashley- Thanks for your help! I really want to do Target, but have heard such negative things about the policies after the wedding.
Hazel- I wish the Fiance and I had some of our own things so we could register for a HOneymoon! That's such a great idea and will be a trip you'll never forget!
Frances- Thanks goodness! The fiance and I were looking at trash cans and thought it would be best to get one with a lid (that can lock) that's big and pretty heavy duty. Glad we chose correctly!!
Amanda- Yes! I had Corningware in mind, but haven't registered for it yet! Thank goodness you reminded me, i'll have to go online and add it!! I love the Pyrex brand and registered for a set of their items. Thanks for the tips!
Thank you everyone for your comments, they really are wonderful to have such great tips from people who are in the know!!
oooooh i know what you mean!! it is exhausting!! we splurged on our everyday too, and am totally glad we did... i smile every day when we use it.
we also registered at rei and got a ton of camping gear we wanted... so i would say if there is a store that isn't a typical registry store, but that carries something hobby related that you would both enjoy, definitely register there. people like those fun gifts and you'll love them too!
In my experience some people buy stuff from the registry but not an overly high percentage... so I wouldn't expect to receive every item on your registry. So I don't know if I would worry about making the registry a COMPLETE record of everything you want/need. I like plates with a design, but that's just me. Good luck!
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